7 errors when you send text messages can ruin your relationship

Relationships change our lives, our prospects, and fill us with energy, especially when they are starting.

But with the passing of time things change... and people, both men and women, begin to fall into a routine in which there is no longer a surprise or mystery, and both people become “predictable” in your communication.

Friend, don't be a victim of the bad habits of communication, because you can do great harm, either with your current partner or with your ex-girlfriend or wife.

To help you, in this article I share with you these 7 common mistakes that can ruin your relationship or your chances of recovering your relationship.

1) Stop writing your name when you send messages

There are probably things that you did when you started the relationship with her that made you fall in love with you, maybe the way how you tomábas the hand, or how the saludabas with a kiss on the cheek, or even how the sorprendías with something special.

But I bet that in this stage, each text message that you sent, or most of it, what comenzabas with his name, am I wrong?

There is a certain “magic” in the sound of the name of a person that makes you special. Words like “babe”, “text your ex back”, “cute”, can't compete with just SAYING HIS NAME.

If you want to remove most of it, replaced a “hi” for his “name“. If you want to start to take an interest in you, it always starts with your name, this gives you strength and personality.

2) Only send messages when it comes to it

If you want it I will replace or cease to be interesting for you, fill your text messages with your problems, thoughts, feelings, and insecurities, and ignores what she has to say.

Believe it or not, many men fall into this tremendous error. And while some of the women are very patient and only have away from a little when this happens, eventually always end up associations eventually bore of that man think that he is the “center of attention” and move away from the relationship.

By that, care to send text messages. Worry that she will have space to tell you of your life, and you refocus, even when you're having a lot of problems, talk of something pleasant and that makes you feel good, and only occasionally talks to her more difficult issues.

The most important thing is to calibrate. It is not good for a 100% of positive messages, as well as clearly it is not good for a full of messages loaded with problems and insecurities.